Showing posts with label Wife of a Nabi (‘Alaihis salaam). Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wife of a Nabi (‘Alaihis salaam). Show all posts

Monday, June 03, 2019

Wife of Nabi Ayyoob [‘alaihis salaam] – Part Two

Faithfulness is Never Forgotten



Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) remained in the state of sickness for more than eighteen years, yet he and his respected wife remained patient and steadfast.

One day, Shaitaan approached the wife of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) in the form of a doctor. As he had adopted this form and appeared to be a normal person, she did not realise that it was actually Shaitaan in front of her. Thinking him to be a doctor, she asked him, out of concern for her husband, whether he had any cure for his illness. Shaitaan said, “I do have a cure. However, in return for the cure, he must address me and say, ‘You have cured me’. I do not want any other compensation for my treatment.”
The wife of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) returned to him and informed him of what had transpired. As soon as he heard this, he realized that the ‘man’ was no doctor, but was none other than Shaitaan. Being the Nabi of Allah Ta‘ala, Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) was angered that his wife would even suggest to him that he speak such words, attributing the cure to Shaitaan. Hence, Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) vowed to lash his wife one hundred times.
This incident greatly grieved Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam), as Shaitaan had now even begun to try and mislead his wife. It is in reference to this attempt of Shaitaan that Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) made du‘aa to Allah Ta‘ala, asking Allah Ta‘ala to cure him, saying, “Indeed Shaitaan has afflicted me with distress and suffering.” (Surah Saad, v41) Allah Ta‘ala accepted his du‘aa and instructed him in the following words, “Strike with your foot, here is (water for) a cool bath and to drink”. (Surah Saad, v42)
As he did so, a spring of water gushed forth. Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) then drank the water and bathed in it. Allah Ta‘ala placed the cure for his illness in this water, and through drinking it and bathing in it, he was completely cured of his illness.
Thereafter, Allah Ta‘ala sent him a garment of Jannah. When his wife arrived to care for him, according to her routine and habit, she failed to find him. She saw a man seated nearby and asked him, “Have you seen the ill-man who used to be here?” She was greatly grieved and thought that he had perhaps been killed by wild animals. At that moment, the man informed her that he was actually Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam). Initially, she struggled to believe him, but he then told her of how Allah Ta‘ala had cured him of his illness.
Allah Ta‘ala then restored the youth of his wife, allowing her to bear Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) children once again. According to some reports, she gave birth to twenty-six sons, while other reports mention that Allah Ta‘ala even brought his children, who had passed away, back to life. Allah Ta‘ala also sent two clouds to him; the first filled his threshing floor with gold, and the second filled his other threshing floor with silver. In this manner, Allah Ta‘ala replaced everything that he had lost and granted him more than he initially had.
Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) now needed to fulfil his vow. Allah Ta‘ala told Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) that instead of lashing her one hundred times, he should take a bundle containing one hundred pieces of straw, and lash her once with it. In this manner, the vow will be fulfilled. Allah Ta‘ala says, “And take in your hand a bunch of grass and strike with it, and do not break your oath.” (Surah Saad, v44)
Allah Ta‘ala instructed Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) to fulfil his vow in this manner as Allah Ta‘ala valued her loyalty, faithfulness and obedience to her husband, as well as the patience and obedience of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam). Therefore, Allah Ta‘ala mentions immediately thereafter, “Indeed, We found him patient. What an excellent servant! Indeed, he always turned to Allah.” (Surah Saad, v44)
(Al-Bidaayah wan Nihaayah vol. 1, pgs. 262 – 266 and Bazzaar & Abu Yaa’la - Majma‘uz Zawaaid #13821)
Lessons:
1. Many people have good intentions and praiseworthy motives. They sincerely wish to assist people and bring about betterment. However, together with the intention being correct, it is necessary that the means adopted be pleasing to Allah Ta‘ala.
2. The Ambiyaa (‘alaihimus salaam) were such that their happiness and their displeasure were purely for the sake of Allah Ta‘ala. In other words, if they suffered any personal grievance, they would overlook and forgive. However, if the law of Allah Ta‘ala was broken, they would become angry, for the sake of Allah Ta‘ala, and act in accordance with the command of Allah Ta‘ala. Similarly, the Ambiyaa (‘alaihmus salaam) would only express happiness if the occasion was one which Allah Ta‘ala approved of. Hence, the challenge is for us to similarly make our pleasure and displeasure be subject to the pleasure and displeasure of Allah Ta‘ala. Accordingly, if our children do not perform their salaah, it should anger us and prompt us to discipline them. However, if they accidentally break some item of ours, we should overlook and forgive.
3. Allah Ta‘ala never forgets the loyalty of His servants. Hence, whether in this world or the next, He will most certainly acknowledge their efforts and reward them. Thus, due to her patience, perseverance and loyalty, Allah Ta‘ala Himself told Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) of a method through which his wife would be saved from the hundred lashes. Similarly, if we remain loyal to Allah Ta‘ala, He will be there for us in our time of need.

4. As severe as the sickness of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) was, he bore it patiently and did not become greatly worried or perturbed. However, when Shaitaan attempted to misguide his wife, he became extremely worried and turned to Allah Ta‘ala in du‘aa. Hence, we understand that one of the greatest worries and concerns that we should have is for the guidance and piety of our families. For this, we should constantly make du‘aa and encourage them towards righteousness.

Monday, May 20, 2019

Wife of Nabi Ayyoob [‘alaihis salaam] – Part One

The incident of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) is well known to one and all. Initially, Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) was enjoying great prosperity. He had abundant animals and crops, many children and numerous homes. Allah Ta‘ala then decided to test Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam). Hence, he lost all his wealth and even his children. Allah Ta‘ala even tested Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) with an illness that afflicted his entire body. The only two limbs of his body that were spared from this illness were his tongue and his heart. Nevertheless, even in this condition, he would keep his heart and tongue engaged in the remembrance of Allah Ta‘ala.  
As for the respected wife of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam), there are two views regarding her name. According to some ‘Ulama, her name was Layyaa, while other ‘Ulama have mentioned that her name was Rahmah.
While Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) was patiently enduring this test, most of the people abandoned him, until he was left alone in a corner of the town. However, his loyal wife never left him or abandoned him. She remembered his favour upon her when conditions were favourable, and hence she remained at his side through thick and thin, ever loyal and faithful.

She would patiently tend to him and see to all his needs. In some narrations, it has even been mentioned that when her wealth was eventually depleted, she began to carry out domestic work in peoples’ homes in order to earn a living and see to her ailing husband’s needs. Together with this, she had lost her children and her husband was extremely sick. Through all these tests, she remained patient and did not complain, even though she went from a life of comfort and happiness to one of difficulty and sadness.
(Al-Bidaayah wan Nihaayah vol. 1 pg. 262) 

Lessons:
1. The proverb “a friend in need is a friend indeed” is often quoted, highlighting the fact that a true friend is one who will remain with you in difficult times as well as good times. We can well imagine that if such loyalty is expected of a good friend, then what must be the high level of loyalty that is expected of a true spouse? After all, the relationship between the husband and wife far surpasses any friendship! Hence, a true, loyal wife is not one who will abscond to her father’s house when “the goings get tough”. Rather, she will patiently remain with her husband and assist him, to the best of her ability, as she would expect of him had she been in difficulty.


2. Undergoing tests is an unavoidable occurrence in life. We cannot choose the nature or time of our tests – but we can choose to pass the tests. To do so, we will have to hold firmly to sabr (patience) and remain pleased with the decision of Allah Ta‘ala.